What I refer to as the reformation of family. It happened to our family and we simply didn't see each other again.

I met up with my brother the other day, the first time in 13 years.

He has three grown up children, two married with their own children.

But for marriages, we would never get together, and even that isn't a done deal.

There's a lot of hurt in our family, and though our getting together allowed me to shed some tears, and be honest, the truth is we simply are never there for each other,and one day it will be too late.