What an amazing outlook you have, Linda! I haven't sufferred in your ways but things have happened that were not in the grand plan, and that has made me realize that the grand plan is little more than a wish, if even that! Now I try always to trun thngs into positives, you know, deliberately re-phrase my narrative before it leaves my mouth. You'd be amazed by how that changes how you feel inside. Life is good. So lovely to meet you. :)