Too sad for words, Janet.

The trouble is, the narrative that he was fed over the years, you have absolutely no control over.

That your grand boys don't even know each other is a travesty...though that is one of my problems and not because of divorce.

I really don't know why humans are so terribly mean,but they are.

To be honest I believe there are more fractured families than healthy ones.

I can't feel your pain. None of us can, but I wish I had a magic bullet to make it all right once more.

:)