This is not something I would normally do, but I just wrote it today and it fits in well with what you are talking about. It also highlights WHY this is happening. Forgive the plug, Bebe.

https://mariarattray.medium.com/telling-it-like-it-is-is-a-tough-job-but-someone-should-be-doing-it-122e954d45af?source=email-cbfd0934a6ca-1653032825768-newsletter.subscribeToProfile-------------------------a9940afa_4eae_4cf7_b349_648333cce5cc--------dc9dcfed265