So Patrick, one thing you have learned is what a good home and a great family looks and feels like.

Continue to write open and honestly when you feel the need.

One day the sun will shine for you you will be able to write about your own personal family, that family that is more precious than gold. They are the lucky ones, and you are lucky to be treasuring, forming and shaping them so they never have to endure what you went through.

Terrific writing. :)