So many things I could and should have reported over the years, Susan. It's sickening, no matter how we view things.
My daughter had a dreadful experience with a male at work. BUT, she documented everything this man said and did.
When she said she was moving, she was asked why. She produced all the horrid emails They were shocked, and he was taken to task. Still the damage was done.
In her new job she happened to ask her new boss if they had filled a particular position that had been going. They had,,,guess who?
Her boss could see something was wrong. "Not a good placement? he asked.
She told him everything, in particular that he didn't like women
Needless to say he didn't get the job.