So Alan, seems like I'm going places!!! I actually agree with you. My daughter's high school friend studied hard and became a lawyer in the Public Service. My daughter, equally bright, and not so hard-working, has done a myriad of things, far surpassing her friend, enjoying amazing opportunities, and chances to see the world. had I appreciated that at the time, I might not have done so much head-butting.

Great article. Thank you.