One thing I know Julia, is that you are one strong woman. You will look back on your marriage, in time, and see that all was never really perfect.

You're still relatively young, and time, and fulfillment will render this break the opportunity for you to achieve wonderful things.

The pain will subside, and you will grow in ways you may never have, had the break not happen.

Hold your children close. They symbolyze all that you hold dear.

For the life of me, I cannot imagine giving up my beautiful children for not a lot, for when the chips are down, that's what we are talking about.

Grow strong Julia. Be the force you are on this earth to be. You can do it.