Michelle I don't think there's anyone in your shoes who wouldn't suffer the pain of regret.

We tend to beat ourselves up for what we didn't do, rather than crediting ourselves for the things we did.

We are all somewhat incomplete humans. After the event we suddenly know, and yet we just don't, and we can't.

You had no appreciation of her level of pain.

This is such a lovely tribute to your friend, and maybe a lesson for us all.

Thank you for sharing.