Life together is not based on a set of scales, Carole. He obviously loves what he's doing, and I'd b capitalising on that.

We have a routine in the morning that my husband wasn't aware of. While he makes coffee, and ensures cups are suitably warm, and accompanying cream is poured into said cups, and stirred in with care, i have made our bed, opened the blinds, sometimes even run our vacuum stick over the bedroom carpet, and he's the one who looks in wonder and tells me I'm Wonder woman. I'm sticking with that.

We're all different. We get our energy ad happiness from different sources, and if we prefer to stay home and eat, so be it.

We don't eat out often, but that's because I prefer my standard of cooking compared to many restaurants, yes even the expensive ones!