Life is fraught, Rob. We rarely get what we want, but losing your children, well, I just cannot imagine the extent of your grief.

By now they will be young adults, though,. The thing is, unless we are super-fortunate, we all do lose our children, for a time, and we grieve.

But it's all about time. Time heals. Circumstances change, and suddenly things fall into place. They will want you back in their lives, with their own children, and you will heal.

It's still very hard though. :)