James that bad situation is what we all learn from. Sure it hurts, we're impacted, and we ask why me, but then the qualities we innately have start to lead the pack in, well what can we do next?

I could have done without some of the testing things in my life, and I could have hopped on the blame wagon. .But how well would having a privileged existence have served me? I'm a much more resilient, problem-soving person than I might otherwise have been...much more compassionate too.