It's amazing how people just don't get it. Yes, you may be retired, it may look like you have the whole day to yourself, but time seems to be sucked out of our days so easily.

One hour of my day is given over to exercising, then so much time for writing and editing and I find my days just spin out of control.

I'm sure that's much the same for you, James.

It's not that any of us choose NOT to help, more that those who ask just don't consider that we my have pressing things to do.

Great advice, James.