If you're intent of have a man in your life, write down al the things that are non-negotiable.

Being hygienic goes without saying.

Having social graces.

Sharing interests.

Being interesting - maybe that one should go first, because boring people are so boring!

Sense of humour!

I could go on, but a check list would separate the wheat from the chaff.

Personally? I won't even go there!