Hi Miche, loss tends to whip us off our feet and as a result we don't often think rationally ... or is it that what we do post loss, when we have to some extent picked ourselves up, that we think if we'd only done this or that.

That's certainly how it was for us, and I really had to stop myself doing it.'We did what we did, and we are what we are as a result of it.

The days of fear have passed and we find ourselves in our realty.

More importantly, we made it with the help of a few people. I hope that will be for you too.

People tend to fall into two groups, the kind and the judgemental. The latter you can dismiss.