For me, Pamela, I deliberately put things to bed. This allows me to move on and live my life.

I can think of several people who did terrible things to my husband and me, but they did terrible things to others too.

To be honest I really believe they rise above their behaviour, hands totally clean. They are without conscience.

So I don;t allow them over my threshold. This means our lives can go on.

Lovely post. :)