First of all Lisa, allow me to wrap my virtual arms around you. I cannot, for the life of me, fathom the depth of your grief, but I do understand your pain.

What I can't understand is the ongoing punishment being meted out to you by an ex who supposedly has 'found love'...but there again, perhaps he hasn't. If you are truly happy, there is just no room for revenge.

A man that studieth revenge, keep his own wounds green (Francis Bacon)

You can rise above this, Lisa. He can't rise above much at all, it would seem.

Beautiful piece of writing. :)