Elaine this was such a moving post. I absolutely understand all the emotions that were coursing through your mind...from the: will this work for us as a family, to the blessings that each of you enjoyed through friendship, to the need for the family to reunite, not because you had failed, but because they were incomplete as a family without a dad or husband. Safe wasn't enough, but your friendship and caring will last a lifetime for this family, and if they survive the horrors, you will all enjoy looking back on a beautiful moment in time. So beautifully written.