As John Lennon said, and this is offered in the spirit of absolute kindness Susan, there's nowhere you can be that you weren't meant to be.

The message is for you and your daughter. Look at it this way. It might be a way of telling your daughter she is not on the right path.

In time I believe she will be glad she jumped ship. The one she's on is not taking her to where she is meant to be.

This too shall pass.