A sad story indeed. Sad for both of you that you commission was left in some sort of limbo.
I don't know where you are Stuart (I always think of you as Scottish), but I suspect not.
I am in Australia. Allow me to share a story.
Just the other week I was watching a program on ABC about selling in theatre! Medical theatre, for clarity.
It worked like this. If you were having a hip replacement, a rep was allowed into theatre to advise doctors, basically up-sell. I was shocked.
All I can say is I hope I never ever, have to have surgery again.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-11-23/insider-claims-that-sales-reps-are-upselling/101691070